Key ways to love one another

DeYoung lists 11 key ways for Christians to love one another. Here are a few:

  • ‘Pray and follow up.I always find it amazing (and encouraging) that so many people will pray for me in a time of crisis or pain. I find it doubly amazing when those people circle back a week later, or a month later, or a year later, and tell me they are still praying and ask how I am doing.
  • ‘Keep in mind, suffering is a battleground.We don’t just experience life. We all interpret what we experience. When suffering comes—and it comes to all of us—we will be tempted to interpret our pain incorrectly (e.g., God is out to get me, I’m unlucky, nothing really matters). We need each other to suffer well.
  • ‘Exercise patience and humility.Real love means getting into real problems. Most people, however, prefer to talk about their circumstantial problems, not their real problems. So if we are going to love one another, we must deal humbly with other people’s anger and other people’s failures.
  • ‘Have the courage to confront.Love may cover a multitude of sins, but it does not overlook every sin for all time. Sin is one of the main things we all have in common. Let’s not be afraid to talk about it.’

-Kevin DeYoung

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(GSiV: A Mindset All Reformed Folks Need; Unity)